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The bedtime screen routine: why the last hour matters
How screens can push bedtime later and what a gentle wind-down routine looks like, with a simple plan you can start tonight.
By the Tinyclock editorial team · Published · Updated · 3 min read
Sleep is the part of a child's day that screens can quietly erode. A video that runs ten minutes over, a chat that keeps going, a game with one more level: each one pushes bedtime later by a little, and the cost shows up the next morning. A bedtime screen routine is one of the highest-impact changes a family can make, and it usually costs nothing.
How screens can affect sleep
Screens can make it harder to fall asleep in a few ways. Exciting content keeps the mind active. Notifications and endless feeds make it hard to stop. Bright light in the evening can also delay the body's sense that it is time to wind down. Many pediatric organizations therefore recommend switching screens off about an hour before bed and keeping them out of the bedroom overnight.
Every child is different, so treat the numbers as a starting point and watch how your child sleeps, wakes and behaves.
A 60-minute wind-down that works for many families
- 60 minutes before bed: Screens go off. Announce it with a warning 10 minutes earlier so there is time to finish.
- 45 minutes: Quiet jobs, such as tidying, packing the school bag, or laying out clothes.
- 30 minutes: Bath or shower, teeth, pyjamas.
- 15 minutes: Reading together, a quiet game, or a short chat about the day.
- Lights out: Same time most nights, including weekends within an hour or so.
You do not need all five steps. Even two or three predictable steps help children's bodies learn the pattern.
Make the lock a routine, not a punishment
Children resist what feels like a penalty. Frame the bedtime lock as part of the evening, not as a consequence. A few ways to do that:
- Agree on the time together in the daytime, not at bedtime
- Give a warning so nobody is cut off mid-sentence
- Keep alarms and calls to parents available so the lock feels safe
- Let the child choose parts of the routine, such as which book to read
In Tinyclock, a bedtime schedule includes a wind-down reminder, always-allowed essentials and one-off exceptions for sleepovers or holidays. Read more on the bedtime feature page.
Keep devices out of the bedroom
Charging phones, tablets and consoles outside the bedroom removes the easiest temptation. Buy a cheap alarm clock if your child uses the phone for waking up. If a device must stay in the room for a good reason, use the lock so that only alarms and calls work overnight.
Handling the hard cases
Older children who say they need the phone for homework. Agree that school work finishes before the wind-down, and use the school schedule to allow only study apps earlier in the evening.
Weekend lateness. Allow a later bedtime, but keep the screen cut-off tied to bedtime rather than letting the whole evening run on.
Resistance and negotiation. Stay kind and consistent. If a child asks for more time, answer the request calmly, and agree beforehand what exceptions are possible.
When to talk to a professional
If your child regularly struggles to fall asleep, wakes often or seems very tired even with a good routine, talk to your pediatrician. Screens are one factor among many.
Sources and further reading
- HealthyChildren.org, American Academy of Pediatrics advice on sleep and media
- World Health Organization, guidance on sleep and sedentary behaviour for children
Frequently asked questions
How long before bed should screens go off?
Many pediatric guidelines suggest turning screens off about an hour before bed. If that is hard, start with 30 minutes and build up.
Should the phone charge in the bedroom?
Most sleep guidance suggests charging devices outside the bedroom, which removes the temptation to check them at night.
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